Vogue magazine thinks so – but there are other relationships that are much more embarrassing. I should know, I’m in one myselfIs having a boyfriend embarrassing? Yes, British Vogue made the ruling recently in a gently provocative piece, declaring it “quite culturally loser-ish” and “more of a flex to pronounce yourself single”. Heterosexuality, #couplegoals, being proudly loved-up or posting even the subtlest “soft launch” – a teaser shot on socials of the hairy back of a hand on the other side of a table, or a buff-looking shadow – have all, apparently, become deeply uncool.This diktat has been widely and enthusiastically welcomed by singletons online, thrilled that their life choices have been endorsed by the style bible (sample comment: “what a time to be alive”). Continue reading...
Monday 3 November 2025
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Is it really outrageously uncool to have a boyfriend?
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